I know a lot of guys have no idea how to hit or approach a girl and not either embarrass themselves or even make the situation a bit tense and uncomfortable, especially when you feel the girl will not be attracted to you… I’ve been there! Well, this insightful article from Natasha Ivanovic will help you in this bit. Follow her advice religiously and go and conquer!
If you want success in learning how to hit on a girl, take it from me, there are a couple things you can do that’ll help you out. And I’m here to make sure you don’t accidentally seem like a creep.
There have been so many times where I’ve been hit on by weird guys. Well, they weren’t actually weird, but they just didn’t know how to approach me. And I’m not the only woman who’s experienced this. And as a guy, you know how we react. Maybe we’ll give you a smile, but most likely, we walk away from you.
How to hit on a girl
Sure, you may think that it’s mean, but honestly, in those situations, we’re left feeling extremely awkward and uncomfortable. And after a while, we become numb to it, to the point where we don’t even acknowledge you.
But I don’t want that to happen to you. Instead, I want you to be able to approach a girl and actually get a number from her. Now, this doesn’t mean you’re going to be successful with every girl you approach if you follow these tips. Of course, you’re going to get rejected, that’s just a part of putting yourself out there. But, it’s always nice to have a couple victories in the mix as well. Learn how to hit on a girl the right way, and you’ll see the difference it can actually make.
#1 Why are you going out? Of course, when you go out, there are going to be women, that’s inevitable. But there’s one thing you have to understand, you cannot go out just to hit on girls. Do not make your night dependent on finding someone or else you’ll come off as desperate and end up disappointed. Go with your friends. Whatever happens, happens.
#2 Observe. Now, I’m going to tell you not to lurk, but this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t keep your eyes open. If you want to successfully hit on a girl, go for one that’s giving you the clearest signs that she’s interested. She may make eye contact with you or smile. If a girl does this, then you have a better chance of successfully hitting on her.