Why guys love rough sex – With so many mixed messages between men and women, what is this really about? It seems that since 50 Shades of Grey became popular, rough sex and BDSM (Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/submission, Sadism/Masochism) have hit the mainstream. References can be found everywhere from Cosmopolitan to The Guardian newspaper.
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The desire for rough sex is NOT new.
Rough sex can be biting your lover, holding her down with your body weight, or picking her up and carrying her off to bed like a caveman. And of course, rough sex can get more intense, venturing into some BDSM territory, like tying her to the bed and being very rough — pinching her, spanking her, and finally pounding into her.
The trend favoring rougher sex has worried women, men and lots of parents, especially in the form of discussion about the level of abuse present in the relationship at the center of 50 Shades of Grey. Yet research has firmly shown that people who enjoy BDSM are generally mentally healthy and have experienced about the same level of sexual abuse as the general population.
Here are 5 keys reasons men — and women! — get so much pleasure out of rough sex.
1. The element of surprise.
One of the reasons men — and women — are turned on by rough sex is the element of surprise that turns on our dopamine receptors which gives us more sexual pleasure. Unexpected experiences help keep our relationships exciting and fresh.
We are more daring when engaging in rough sex, so will try out different sensations. Biting and nipping, for example, will stimulate dopamine as well.
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