How to get any man you like to chase you – Stop chasing him! For years, I spent more time than I care to admit chasing after men, trying to convince the man du jour that he really did like me. It felt terrible. With each rejection, I felt worse and worse about myself.
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I didn’t understand what I was doing wrong by calling men first, asking them out and showing interest.
Without fail, when I put myself directly in the driver’s seat when it came to my interactions with guys, it backfired completely. The devastating heartbreak continued until I learned a few things about the way guys are simply hardwired differently than we are.
People get pissed off when I say that men are hunters who like the chase. And I understand why.
On the surface, it sounds like I’m saying something demeaning. Those words, “the chase”, seem like I’m implying that men are not worthy or good enough for women to show interest in them.
Or that they’re masochistic suckers who like it when women are cold, rejecting, and mean to them. Or that women are stumbling around like weak baby deer waiting to be scooped up by a hunter. Or that women aren’t capable of attracting men, so guys have to do the work.
This couldn’t be further from the truth!
Men swear up and down that if a woman they were attracted to showed interest, they wouldlove it. And they’re not lying about this.
There’s a big difference between their definition of “showing interest” and ours. Male attraction requires two things: Sexual attraction AND effort.
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