Things you do that turn men off immediately – Hint: It has nothing to do with your looks. Do you wonder if you’ll ever find love? If you’re like most single women, you cannot understand why men never ask you out. You have a first date every once in a while, but then you almost never hear from the guy again.
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It’s so frustrating!
Why should you continue with online dating or go out to mingle when it never results in your getting asked on dates?
You don’t know what you could be doing wrong, and wonder if perhaps all of the good men really are taken. From where you sit, it seems as though other women don’t have this same problem.
As a dating coach for women over 40, I see my clients make a lot of mistakes they aren’t the least bit aware they are making. Thankfully, I help them sort things out and make changes to improve their odds of finding love. And they do!
Check out these 5 shocking reasons why men might not be asking you out, identify if any of these apply to you, and find out what to do differently.
1. You insist on being staunchly Independent.
No one can argue with the advantages of self-sufficiency. However some women wear that independence like a badge of honor. Maybe your self-sufficiency was hard won and came at big price, so you tout that boldly.
The trouble is, men find the staunchly independent woman unattractive.
This might surprise you, but men actually want to feel needed. Good men want to help you fix things, open jars, or build stuff. So, when you brag about how you can do EVERYTHING YOURSELF, he feels unneeded — which is a huge turnoff.
What are you supposed to do?
Don’t brag about your independence before or during the first few dates. Keep that amazing accomplishment under wraps initially, and let him see your softer side first. He’ll recognize your independence, but you don’t need to rub it in his face.
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