Make your man see you as the woman he can’t be without – If you’re on pins and needles waiting for a man to make up his mind about you, then it’s time to learn how to make him see you as the one woman he can’t be without. I should know. Here’s what I did to get my husband from “not ready” to “will you marry me?”
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I’ve been married for over twenty years, and since most of my coaching focuses on inspiring a man to commitment, my clients always want to know how my husband proposed to me.
When I tell them, they’re both surprised and relieved to hear that it wasn’t an easy journey — he was stalling and “not ready” and I was feeling very uncertain.
And then, without realizing it, I did something completely counterintuitive that changed the situation around completely. In doing so, I showed him my worth and was able to change his behavior very quickly.
If you’re ever faced with a man who’s “not sure”, here’s how you can get him to take the next step:
1. Move in together… and wait for the ring.
My husband wooed me. He courted me and won me over. I was so confident that our relationship would lead to marriage, that I agreed to move in with him. I thought we were on track to a proposal, and I figured it was imminent.
After all, my husband had been chasing me since the moment we met! He was the one talking about forever. He was the one who kept saying I was “The One.”
And so, on New Year’s Eve, when he sat me down and looked me in the eye, I was certain a ring would appear. But what he said instead broke my heart…
He told me that he needed more time, and that his therapist said that if I loved him, I’d understand and give it to him! I was shocked, saddened, and didn’t know what to do.
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