Signs you’re with the right man – Don’t get in the way of your own TRUE happiness. Mr. Right, Prince Charming, your soulmate … whatever you call him, finding the right man is no easy task. It can be even harder once you’ve found him and start wondering, “Is he the one?”
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Many women have a clear idea of the exact kind of guy they want to fall in love with; others feel they’ll know him when they see him.
Some of my dating coaching clients even carry extensive lists to help them recognize Mr. Rightwhen they start dating.
Regardless of how you approach finding the right man, my dating advice is to not get lost in the process of wondering whether he is “the one”. Sometimes women are so busy qualifying a guy against their complex criteria, they overlook all the good that exists in the relationship.
It’s most important to stay objective, to avoid getting attached too quickly.
In fact, I’m a big fan of dating multiple guys until you get to exclusivity with one. Keep all your options open … that’s just smart dating.
This way you’ll spend enough time with a man to know he’s truly worth releasing your other suitors.
The problem is, when trying to determine which man is best, women typically focus on the negative.
You look for all things he’s NOT doing and how he DOESN’T measure up, so you can move on if needed.
That’s OK. It’s a natural (and necessary) part of any selection process, but it can also overshadow all the good in him that you might be taking for granted.
So, I’m cautioning you — make sure you don’t miss out on a wonderful man because you’re too focused on disqualifying him. Keep your eyes (and heart) open to noticing where the men you date excel.
To help spot a good man, here are 12 signs to watch for that will help you answer “Is he the one?”.
1. He makes you smile and laugh.
Never underestimate the power of humor to bring two people together. If he makes you laugh, that ability will come in handy when you eventually hit rough spots in life.
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