Guide to exploring the KINKY “art of bondage” – A little excitement doesn’t have to always be a complete mystery. A lot of couples want to explore the kinky side of sex — BDSM — but are afraid. If you’re a newcomer to kink, there’s good reason to hesitate: Going too far, too fast, or even a minor miscommunication with your lover can end up hurting each other (or the relationship).
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But couples who are new also have so much to gain by exploring new parts of their sexuality together.
What is BDSM? The letters stand for a lot of different things, depending on who you ask. The most common and broad definition of BDSM is Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism. It’s an umbrella term that includes a wide range of erotic activities that consenting adults use to explore their sexuality together. It can be light bondage, erotic spanking, or as advanced as suspension bondage and caning.
For those of you who are intrigued but hanging in limbo because of uncertainty, here’s a 10-step guide to explore the exciting world of bondage.
1. Explore your fantasies and name your desires.
Fantasies belong in your erotic imagination and are able to powerfully fuel your sexual arousal. In fantasies, there are no limitations or consequences. A desire is a craving for a real life experience. Know the difference and let your fantasies run wild, while being realistic about what you really desire in your sex life.
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