Signs he’s completely emotionally unavailable – The signs can be blatant, they can be subtle, but they’re always there. Ok, so you met someone who knocks your socks off. The relationship may seem headed in the right direction, but suddenly, something doesn’t feel right. Maybe you feel it’s time to become exclusive or maybe you’ve been together for awhile and you’re ready to move your relationship to the next level.
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But … your partner doesn’t seem to be jumping at the opportunity to be your one and only. In fact, the closer you become, the more he or she seems to pull away.
In the beginning of any relationship that makes it past a few dates, it’s easy to feel infatuated with someone. We get a rush of chemicals in our brains that make us feel like we’re living in a fairy tale. Then reality sets in and we start to find out if a relationship is going to last.
It takes two emotionally available partners to keep a relationship going. If you want a committed relationship, its good to know how to spot an unavailable partner so you can prevent future heartbreak. Here are some tell-tale signs of an unavailable partner.
1. They state the obvious (but you ignore it).
Many unavailable partners make it very simple to detect them. Most people just decide not to listen or because you feel so infatuated, you think it will be different with you. This is a big red flag.
This partner will openly make statements about their dislike for marriage, commitment, or calling each other “boyfriend” or “girlfriend.” If you try to have the “commitment discussion” (which you will probably have to bring up because they won’t) he or she will tell you that they don’t want to be exclusive/move in together/get married.
Don’t make the mistake of thinking you can change someone over time. If you hear comments like this, accept them as reality and move on if you want someone who is available.
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