How to make peace with a friend – “Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?” Abraham Lincoln. Making peace with friends following a fight is an important step to maintaining harmonious and happy relations between the two of you.
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Whether or not you go on to maintain your friendship is a matter for the two of you but it is important to resolve any lasting anger and address it rather than let it fester. Here are some suggestions for making peace following the fight.
Steps
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Leave your friend alone for a while. It will make time for both of you to cool off. Also calm yourself off and think about what you want to say to him/her
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Call him/her when you’re relatively certain that both of you have had ample time to cool off.
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Be sincere and humble. Apologize for your role in the fight.
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Make sure to listen carefully to what your friend says. Ready body languageand make sure your body language isn’t communicating something you don’t intend. Situations may not have been as they appeared and there’s always room to learn.
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Do not leave issues unresolved but at the same time know when to take a break. Don’t keep pushing for a resolution if its obvious that your friend isn’t interested in one. Find a temporary solution and resolve the issue later.
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Try to lay low for a while, don’t start any gossip or anything and do not get involved with any fights or rumors that could damage this friendship more then it is.
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Also be aware that giving someone time isn’t always the best solution. it varies from person to person. Some people, although they try to avoid it, would prefer direct confrontation in order to get the issue resolved.
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