Reasons guys cheat – This is where the blame actually belongs. When a man starts cheating, it has nothing to do with his partner. Nada. Zilch. Zero. Less than zero. It’s a hard thing to wrap our heads around, because the act of cheating can (and should) feel like such a major betrayal. You love this person, and as such, you made yourself vulnerable only to get hit in the face with their clichéd and hurtful cheater’s antics.
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It’s easy to turn his cheating into a failure on your part. Especially when the reasons why men cheat are often so hard to nail down.
Maybe you weren’t having sex often enough, or you weren’t paying as much attention to him as you did in the beginning, or you stopped wearing cute pajamas to bed.
Well, I have good news: none of those are acceptable reasons to hurt another person, deliberately or otherwise.
But it can be hard to realize that this is true when you’re in the fog of grief and hurt.
That’s where I come in, to help and reassure you.
Here are 7 reasons a guy may be cheating that have NOTHING to do with you and your general AWESOMENESS.
1. He’s cheating because he doesn’t know how to have a serious conversation.
When you are unhappy in a relationship, what is the natural solution to this problem?
That’s right, having a conversation about your unhappiness with your partner and addressing those issues.
Men who cheat sometimes do so because it’s easier to quietly blow up their lives with bad behavior than try to communicate like adults.
If he says he’s cheating because of a problem within the relationship, that isn’t your fault. It’s his own for being too much of a coward to communicate with you.
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